Reflections From My Therapy Chair

Reflections, Insights & New Perspectives

A space for reflections on healing, growth, relationships, grief, resilience, and the beautifully messy experience of being human.

From Carmen’s therapy chair, these reflections offer an invitation to pause, become curious, and perhaps see yourself or your experiences in a new way.

Featured reflection

From The Therapy Chair

At 60, I’ve Stopped Waiting

August 17, 2026

At 60, I’ve Stopped Waiting This year I turned 60. It’s a sentence that still feels a little surreal to write because, in my mind, I’m still somewhere around 42…

more reflections

More From The Therapy Chair

Movement, Mental Health, and the Quiet Power of Grit

August 17, 2026

Movement, Mental Health, and the Quiet Power of Grit

We all know movement is good for mental health. We’ve read it, heard it, nodded along knowingly—often while sitting very still. And yet, knowing and doing are two very different things, especially when life

August 17, 2026

ARE YOU STRETCHING OR STRESSING?

Let’s Be Honest: Stretching Kinda Sucks Whether it’s in yoga, therapy, or trying to reach that jar on the top shelf—stretching is uncomfortable. We grunt, groan, and wonder why we’re

August 17, 2026

Managing Pre-Race Performance Anxiety: Tips to Stay Calm, Confident, and Focused

We’ve all been there: standing on the start line, feeling the pressure, the excitement, and a swirl of nerves building up inside. Pre-race performance anxiety is a normal part of

LIFE AS A MARATHON

August 17, 2026

LIFE AS A MARATHON

“When you are going through hell, keep going.” Winston Churchill We all want the first exit out of pain. We often search for the quickest and easiest path. Our fast-paced world

Change.  The messy middle.  Grit.  The New You.

June 25, 2024

Change. The messy middle. Grit. The New You.

Let’s talk about change.  It’s hard!“Change is hardest at the beginning, messiest in the middle and best at the end.” ― Robin Sharma Wouldn’t it be fabulous if change happened very quickly?